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What is the worst way you have been - dumped and dumped someone


mckayleesmom wrote: Lets see...The worst way I was dumped was

When I was 16 and my boyfriend worked at the same place as me and my best friend. One night they went out in a group and I couldn't go because I had to work. That night I got a call from my friend telling me that she overheard him asking another girl from our school out. The next day we took all the things he left at my house including clothes ( He would sometimes change into his uniform at my house since I lived right next store to the burger place we worked at) and poured every burger condiment you could think of on them and drove to where he was and tossed his clothes at him...Childish I know.. laugh.gif Then I had to work with him that night...which sucked. The karma bus crashed into him later though because he started seeing that girl and he volunteered to work on Homecomming night because she was "sick"...Funny that she looked just fine at homecoming with someone else and I got to be the one to shed that light upon him.

The worst way I dumped someone

This was my ex fiance and we lived together. I tried to break up with him 2 weeks prior and he told me that I better take everything out of the house with me in one trip because the door would lock as I left. I worked for everything I had and there was no way I would let that happen. I got a plan together and he went off perfectly. I waited for him to leave for work one day and called my mom who was waiting at the uhaul place...she came over with my sister and we threw my stuff in anything we could find..laundry baskets, trash bags and my sister carried all the bigger furniture....She is like 105, but can lift better then most guys I know.. rolling_smile.gif . We had all my stuff out in about 2 hours...

luvmykids replied: The worst way I was dumped:
I was engaged, having suspicions dry.gif The jerk was always adamant about Friday happy hour being at separate places, which I was fine with because I wanted to hang out with my friends on my own too. But one night I just couldn't shake this feeling so I stopped by the place he always went and whaddya know, he was with another girl. Best thing that ever could have happened, in hindsight laugh.gif

Worst way I dumped someone, well....there are a few because I got panicky when a guy was too nice or liked me too much in high school but didn't want to hurt their feelings rolleyes.gif

Once I had my friend call and tell the guy I didn't like him anymore and when I heard him ask her if I said we could still be friends, I grabbed the phone and screamed "NO!!! YOU HAVE DRIVEN ME BEYOND CRAZY!!! I CAN'T STAND THE THOUGHT OF SEEING YOU MUCH LESS HANGING OUT WITH YOU!!!" blush.gif So much for not hurting someones feelings blush.gif rolling_smile.gif

The other, that my friends still tease me about, was that the bathroom was in a corner of this hallway, with doors both into the hall and outside. When a guy started bugging me, I'd let him walk me to class then say I had to stop at the bathroom. I'd go in the door in the hall and out the door to the outside....I'd do it until they got sick of being ditched and broke up with me.

A&A'smommy replied:
that made me LOL rolling_smile.gif rolling_smile.gif

UMMM I have never really been dumped wink.gif I always did the dumping.. I have been cheated on and caught them then dumped them. And ALMOST got dumped on valentines day one time because the guy THOUGHT i was cheating on him I talked him out of it and dumped him a few days later for being dumb emlaugh.gif emlaugh.gif

I was dating this one guy who had just gotten out of a long relationship.. anyway we rode around a lot and one day I found out that he kept driving past her house (its a small town so I didn't really "notice") well I kept dating him for a few days so I could get with his best friend.. so I called his best friend on a friday night and asked him when he was finally going to ask me out rolling_smile.gif blush.gif and he got a little flustered and was like whenever you want to go out so I told him to pick me up for the football game that night emlaugh.gif well I went over to my best friends after that (she lived like a block away) I was getting ready and the other guy called me and asked me if I wanted to go to the football game I told him that I needed a break from him and I was going out with his Steven that night emlaugh.gif I pretty much turned around and ticked off any guy that started to mess up. blush.gif

luvmykids replied:
LOL! Good call emlaugh.gif

TheOaf66 replied: Worst way I got dumped was 3 days before prom

Worst dumping I did was my 1st fiance and I was living at her parents house. So after the "talk"; had to pack my stuff in the middle of the night and duck out of there.

Boo&BugsMom replied: Worst way I've been dumped...I found out from his brother (who was a friend of mine) that he liked someone else. rolleyes.gif Typical high school male.

Worst way I dumped someone...um...I honestly can't narrow it down. laugh.gif Ok, just kidding...to be honest, I usually wear my heart on my sleeve so I have been dumped way more than I have dumped others. I guess the worst one was my ex fiance. I frolicked around with Troy for 8 months before I got up the gumption to say "buh-bye" to him. My ex hated the fact that I hung out with Troy, and for good reasonings, because Troy and I were in love. wub.gif I finally told him that I didn't want to marry him and basically ran to Troy right away. I am sure he knew deep down that Troy was the reason. So, even though I was really naughty...I got the best husband ever out of it. biggrin.gif

lisar replied: well mine would have to be

When I was 18 I was engaged to a guy and found out that he was sleeping with my best friend. She told me. I just had a hunch and I asked her and she admitted it. Well I left my house and told her she better be gone before I get back that I would be gone an hour. Well I got home she was gone and I proceeded to take all of things (yes we lived together, but it was my house) and I threw them all onto the front porch. Including his pictures and everything. I left him a note telling him about what I found out and I locked up the house with different locks and I left. I didnt come home that night. And the next day when I went home, all of his stuff was gone. And then he started calling me. It was huge fiasco. But I never did get back with him. Years later when I first dating dh (again) he wrote me this long letter wanting me back, and I made copies of the letter and gave it to all of his friends. Childish I know but I still dont think cheating on me was nice. And as for my best friend at the time. Well I never spoke to her again. We didnt see each other again for about 4 years, we ran into each other at a mutual friends funeral. We never said a word to each other.

Boo&BugsMom replied:
I would have done the SAME thing! Although, I guess I would be the pot calling the kettle black considering what I just mentioned above about how Troy and I got together. laugh.gif BUT STILL...I would have done the same thing. laugh.gif

My2Beauties replied: Hmmm...worst way I was dumped was my ex-boyfriend let me pick him up from school one morning, drive him all the way to school (we had been dating for years) and then when I park he says he has something to tell me, right before I go into school so I'm bawling my eyes out, I actually left and went home to compose myself and came to school late. We ended up going back out and stayed together until we were 21, at which time I got revenge...lol

Worst way I dumped someone:

OMG I am horrible there were tons...I would have my friends call guys to tell them I didn't like them anymore, I would start dating someone else within our clique and just let the other person find out, as far as my ex of 7 years goes, I started talking to another guy towards the end of our relationship and wrote him a letter and left it in my purse, it said some things blush.gif and my ex evidently suspected me cheating so he went through my purse to get to my cell phone and found the letter...oops I still broke it off with him though, he wanted to work things out but I was beyond done with him blush.gif

A&A'smommy replied:
nah not horrible tongue.gif I did a LOT of the same things blush.gif

My2Beauties replied:
I'm really bad about starting something before ending another...I did that with all my serious relationships blush.gif blush.gif blush.gif Good to know I'm not alone and not alone in my cruelness towards adolescent teenage boys! LMBO!

DVFlyer replied: Not sure this qualifies, but after I broke up with a girl who I'd been dating for 5+ years who's daughter was 1 when we met, I was called a "dead-beat dad".

luvbug00 replied: worst dump was mya's dad. ( although i wasn't terribly upset it was more of the way he did it, not that he did it.)
right after my bridal shower i came home with all my new gagits and was dumped right then and there.
he reperposed, i refused.

my worst given dump was ....my first fiance, after busting him (via his best friend) going to the beach with another chick i dumped him and then called his mother and told her. emlaugh.gif

Kaitlin'smom replied: guess mine would have been I was seeing this guy we were not offical or anything and he startign talking and dancing with other girls, turns out he just did not want anything serious and did not have the guts to tell me.

as for the worst that I have done, well I guess just not calling them back and ignoring them, its not that I was not interested just not ready to see anyone at that time.

A&A'smommy replied:
rolling_smile.gif rolling_smile.gif yeah I liked to date other guys, break up with them through and email and then the next day they ALWAYS found out they LOVED to rub it in each others faces rolleyes.gif


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