That was hard....

5littleladies wrote: I'm getting ready to paint the living room today and in the process of moving everything around I came across the outfit our baby would have worn if he had been a boy. Jason has become convinced that the baby we lost was a boy-our little Benjamin. He won't let us use the name for a future baby because he is so sure we already had our Benjamin. So seeing that outfit brought on quite a few tears. He would have been 8 months old by now. But if we had him we wouldn't have our little Lissie. Life is hard and confusing at times.

ediep replied: (((BIg Hugs))) So sorry!

kimberley replied: i'm sorry hon. i wish there was something i could say to make you feel better. trust he is in God's arms.

gr33n3y3z replied: Awww

mummy2girls replied: (((HUGS)))) I know its hard! I feel this way when i think of my 2 sons:( This like this set us back a couple steps but we all do recover from it and try to get through it

A&A'smommy replied: I'm sorry sweetie!!!!

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5littleladies replied: Thanks everyone. I can't believe that it can still hurt so much after so long-To the point that I still shed tears. I wish I could have held him just once.

Boys r us replied: I am so sorry! I share in your pain hun!

Sarah&Mackenzie replied: Just want to give you some

jcc64 replied: I'm so sorry. I sometimes think about the baby I lost, and wonder what would have been. But then again, I wouldn't have Corey, so I guess everything happens for a reason.
Big hugs to you.

3_call_me_mama replied: HUGS. hoping that your beautiful girrls are able to help ease your pain a bit, he will forever be in you heart and know he is in God's care.

My2Beauties replied: hon! I couldn't imagine the pain you are feeling hon. I am so sorry! I know it must be hard to think about. We are always here for you! God works in mysterious ways hon!

Debra replied: I'm so sorry! I know how hard it can be! I've had 3 miscarriages & it can be very difficult on some days.

MommyToAshley replied:
So sorry! I wish I could lend you a shoulder to cry on in person.

~Roo'sMama~ replied: I'm sorry. Life really is confusing sometimes! I'm sorry you had a hard day.



I can understand, sort of. I don't ever tell you because I don't want to bring it up and make you sad on a good day, but I even still think about your baby and cry - for you because I can't imagine how hard it must have been, and for him because I want him to be here with us.
He'll always be a part of you ~ I'm sure it will always hurt a little bit to think about what he would be like now if he were here. Maybe more on some days than others.

jem0622 replied: So sorry that you were caught off-guard like that. All that I have of our 2nd angel is a blanket and the u/s pic showing us that everything was 'fine'.

Lots of hugs

Maddie&EthansMom replied:

It is definetly that.

CantWait replied: Sorry is all I can say as I don't know what you're going through. Hugs

adixon24 replied: Hang In There