So frustrated with inconsiderate people :P

KatieLeigh79 wrote: I asked my brother in laws girlfriend last night if she would go with me to get Johns Costume today at the resale shop and she told me sure, to just come get her after he eats so I got him fed (sort of he still won't eat for me good *grumble*) and drove over there - her vehicle is there, the windows are all open and I can see her in there peaking out the blind and trying to avoid me, so I knocked twice - got the hint and left, called when I got home and all we got was the machine... She could have at least just called or emailed and said that she wasn't up to it but of course not - I know it seems petty but gosh - its not a ton of fun to pack the little guy up, get him organized and back out of the sub here with all the construction that can take 10-15 minutes to even make a right turn out... *grumble* She still owes me a lot of money to she has borrowed over time and I'm hoping with the job I got her (again, she's quit the last 3 I've managed to line up for her) she will pay me back but with how everything else seems to go with her I really doubt it. Then I find out she is having her 11 year old daughter move back in with her in November (she wanted to stay in Indiana with her dad to finish this school year out) because she couldn't handle being without her mom, and then I find out shes "figuring" that when she has to work (assuming she even keeps this job) that I can take her daughter to and from school as well as have her stay here when her and Brian aren't in the apartment so that she isn't by herself - I swear she just keeps walking all over me and the stupid thing is I seem to let her!

Boys r us replied: She sounds very inconsiderate!! I'm sorry!!!

and pleas don't take this wrong, b/c I don't mean it snotty, but..People only do to you what you allow them to! Don't let her walk all over you! Stand up for yourself!

My2Beauties replied:
ITA!!!! Don't be her slave!

Josie83 replied: Exactly, don't let her treat you like this. Inconsiderate fool! That is so mean, i hate it when ppl ie or avoid things, why don't people just SAY if they don't want to do something. For goodness' sake! xx

amynicole21 replied: How rude!! She needs a wake up call - SHE'S responsible for her OWN life, not you! I would be so mad.

amynicole21 replied: How rude!! She needs a wake up call - SHE'S responsible for her OWN life, not you! I would be so mad.

KatieLeigh79 replied: Well I've spent the night bawling my eyes out - She told me that she was sick of being stressed and with work and her daughter etc she didn't appreciate us adding stress in her life - made me feel really bad, so Todd then wrote her and said she shouldn't have been like that to me (she's already 40 or is going to be) and she calls me back and just screams in the phone "I don't ever want to hear from you or him again" and slams the phone down after calling me a liar and a few other choice words....

Then I get an email later saying she wants to "discuss our friendship" and sadly I have no one in town female or friendly enough to do things with and I'm half considering it but I know it's just to use me, and she just always wants money and I'm not sure shes worth the pain and all the tears today...

MommyToAshley replied: I am so sorry she is treating you this way. It really does sound like you are better off without her.

Jamison'smama replied: Be strong--stand up for yourself and look elsewhere for friends--I know it can be hard to make friends but she isn't one! Think about what she brings to your life and decide if that's what you want.

New Mommy replied: Don't do it. Go out and find some real friends that will appreciate you. It sounds like you do a lot for her and I am sure that someone else would appreciate what you do.

coasterqueen replied: How inconsiderate!!!! I hate people this! My sister is the same way. One of these days you have to be strong and not let her walk all over you. I need to learn the same.

ctymom replied: Let me get this straight... you drove over there after plans were made and she was in the house peeking out the blinds and not answering?? OMG...is that just completely stupid and childish? Never mind inconsiderate... that's just plain stupid.

Cut ties with her for sure. She is a loose, weird cannon and you dont need that in your life. What a weirdo.

Pamela

KatieLeigh79 replied: Haven't tried to contact her since, and she hasn't tried to contact us - which is fine, just wish it wasn't his brother she is living with as then it puts a real stop to him seeing his nephew as she "runs the show" over there - everyone keeps telling me I should send her a bill for the money she still owes us .... Just can't believe someone who is old enough to be my mother acts like this and expects sympathy! At first I was hurt about everything now I just realize it makes me mad.