Okay now I'm just ticked off!
coasterqueen wrote: I'm more like crying than ticked off. 
For the past 12 years we always go over to DH's extended family for New years. We eat dinner there and then all of the cousins and our friends come over to our house aftewards and play games there.
I just got an email from one of DH's cousins saying that two of our friends are throwing a party instead and they want to know if we are coming. First off we talked two weekends ago to all of them saying we'd have the party at our house. Second they know we can't find a babysitter last minute. We even told them two weekends ago that we have NO ONE to watch Kylie on New Years.
How could they be so rude to do this to us?!   They know we can't come. So I emailed DH asking him what the heck was going on and he said that DH's cousin begged our friends to have the party. I guess DH's cousin doesn't think we are much fun or something or our child must get in his way. This is the same f'ing guy who thinks DH is going to run the electrical in his house for free! WELL I have one word for that DONKEY.....SCREW HIM!
So now after a 12 year tradition I guess DH, Kylie and I will be spending New Years alone.
If this wasn't a parenting board I would be saying so much more but my mouth is very dirty right now. I am so upset!
mckayleesmom replied: Thats rude...who wants company like that anyways
akbutterfly83 replied: I'm sorry your plans didn't work out.... that is very rude of him to do that.... knowing you have a child that is young, and that it is hard to find a babysitter like that.... for that night..... specially since you couldn't get one lined up 2 wks ago.... I say, ferget him, and go have fun with your family........
You don't need him to have fun......
Spending it with your family(DD) is better anyway...... Show her was new years is all about..... it's not about having a grouchy rude person there with you......
Hope you have fun.... and sorry again about what is happening.......
~~~~~~~~Fun Vibes your way~~~~~~~~~
TANNER'S MOM replied: You know what to say here. " Richard Noggin".
I am sorry this is happening to you.
Maddie&EthansMom replied:  What a RUDE, INCONSIDERATE, JERK!!!!! You guys will have a good time regardless. I'm so sorry you are feeling left out.
gr33n3y3z replied: its sad that this happend to you But make it the best time with yourselves 
coasterqueen replied: Well I don't think I will even go over to the family's either because ALL of them will be there too and it's almost embarassing that they are doing this to us.
And no we won't have a good time. Kylie will be asleep and we NEVER have anyone over or get to do anything so it's just DH and I again. Honestly I'm sick of it just being the two of us. I was looking forward to interaction with other people. It's just to the two of us every night, every weekend night and it has been that way mainly since Kylie was born.
You know I knew people would write us off when we decided to have a child but there are a few who of them who had gone through this and knows what it's like for people to isolate them. They promised they would never do that to us. Now that they are divorced and only part-time parents....I guess they forget.
I'm just so upset. And DH wonders WHY I never want to make new friends IRL! Because they always dump on you somehow.
Maybe there's just something wrong with me. I mean the good friends I do seem to have and who are there for me live way too far away or are online. Maybe I'm not meant to have friends who would be around me in person.
mckayleesmom replied: Have you seen if your neihbors are going out or anything?...Maybe if you have neighbors who are also staying home, you can have a little block party.
coasterqueen replied:
Our neighbors are DH's cousins and on the other side is one of our friends. Our whole road is basically DH's extended family. Except the guy across the street from us and he's a cop...mean one at that.
mckayleesmom replied: Maybe you can call him and ask him to arrest the rest of them on New Years,,,,, 
favre4fan replied: oh no that stinks!! 
A&A'smommy replied: awwww hun I'm SO sorry!!! I can't believe that he is being such and ass to ya'll!! (((((HUGS)))))
mammag replied: Awww! I'm so sorry. I know how you feel. One holiday the family was all getting together to go to the movies and my mil was going to watch the little one. Well, we got over there and she had gotten talked into going and we were left out and had to drive back home. Being a sahm I really needed this adult interaction. I was so sad and crying and no one seemed to understand. I hope you are able to make the most of it. I'll be home with just the family as well if that makes you feel any better. I'm finally getting used to it but must admit, I still get a little sad when I hear people talk about what they did on New Year's Eve. Not that I don't love my family but sometimes I want to let loose and have fun, kwim?
Kirstenmumof3 replied: Awww I'm so sorry they did this to you! DH and I are not doing anything for New Years either, we are just staying home! It would have been nice for you to be around your family, could you try talking to these people and explaining how you feel?
ediep replied: awww, man that really stinks!!!! I would be sooooo peeved too! How rude!!!! If it makes you feel any better, DH, Jason, ANd I will be alone on New Years too.
kimberley replied: awwww i am so sorry Karen. i hope they have a miserable new years! vent all you want hon, you are so justified! hope you guys have a nice new year anyway! 
Mommy2Be replied: I am so sorry that happened that is so rude I would be very ticked off too. I hope everything works out and you have a wonderful New Years anyways. (((HUGS)))
Boys r us replied: I'm sorry! that sucks!
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