Oh how I despise his family
MyBabeMaddie wrote: So I know some of my last posts have been controversial - I just want to say that I did not end up writing a letter to Adam's family, thanks to you guys and I'm grateful for the advice.... Anyways, Adam's sister, which I use to be really close to has beed admittingly talking crap about me constantly and I have not talked to since... 3 weeks ago she called me up sayin that she was going to have her mom drop her off at my house.. She wanted me to then take her to buy a bottle of alcohol, pick up her BF and take them back to her house (her mom was going out for the evening) and then at 11 pick up her BF and take him home.... I was like HELLL NO!! I'm not doing that you've got to be crazy.. Anyways I was at the grocery store when she called and she was like my mom is dropping me off at your house I'll be there in 30 seconds, I told her I was at the grocery store not to bother and I would NOT buy her alcohol she'd have to be crazy, she ended up pulling in my driveway, and no one was home so she had to have her mom take her home... Long story short, I haven't talked to her since which was 3 weeks ago... She sent me a text message today saying "Sarah, I know we aren't on good terms but I really need you right now its a girl emergency.. please call me ASAP!" My first thoughts were "omg shes pregnant and 17" but I called her anyways... She said "Sarah I'm going out tonight and my hair straightener just broke, can you stop over here and bring me yours?!" WTF?! I was like uhhh no, sorry... and hung up... I went on facebook later and looked at her profile, her profile pic is of her smoking a bowl of weed... That is exactly why I do not want that family near my child. I am NOT going to do it, but part of me wants to anonymously send her mother that picture and be like LOOK WHAT YOUR CHILDREN ARE DOING, WHAT KIND OF MOTHER ARE YOU!? I am not going to but its just frustrating that they tell me I am not being a good mother buy restricting Madison from seeing them when that is what their family is all about.
Crystalina replied: Wow, sorry for all this. She sounds like a bit of brat! I can't believe she wanted you to actually buy her alcohol ???? 
Oh btw, even if you aren't going to use it I would save the picture!
MyBabeMaddie replied:
LOL! That was the first thing I did with the pic! That brat! How dare she talk crap on me.... I'm not out smoking weed and posting pictures of it! 
Crystalina replied: I don't know why kids think it's so cool to display pics like that. I see my little niece's MySpace and she's downing a Bud Light with her friends and then she swears me to secrecy not to tell her mom what I see on her page. The beer is the worse I've seen and I never said anything because I don't want to be deleted. I figure I'll watch her from a distance. She thinks I'm "cool" (go figure!  ) so she trusts me.
This girl your talking about needs a reality check though. I agree, how in the heck does she suppose talking crap about you will make you want to do anything for her?
How old is she?
MyBabeMaddie replied:
She's 17, she has admitted to me that she has snorted OC's and does cocaine on a regular basis.... Why should I support her, and more importantly WHy should I trust her with my 1 year old.....
Crystalina replied:
Your doing good to steer clear of her. She sounds like big trouble!! She's 17 so I doubt she'll get any better at this point.
MyBabeMaddie replied: Thanks Crystal, I'm trying so hard to do what's best for Madison... I'm letting her see her father, supervised of course... She absolutely adores him, she doesn't know any better.... Its her extended family that sucks just as bad not wanting to be a regular part of her life....
abunky replied: wow, thats a tuff situation , but in all you are doing whats best for your child 
mckayleesmom replied: Sounds like she is just playing whoever she could get something out of.....
MyBabeMaddie replied:
Definitely!! Shes the most manipulative person I've ever met.
sparkys2boys replied: Wow, they sure like to keep things going don't they,,, geesh people.. grow up. I agree with you, I would not take her and her BF all over and buy them booze either. As for giving her mom the pic I wouldn't bother, if her own mother can't see what she is up to now I am sure she just doesn't want to and will turn a blind a eye to the pic also. I would just keep it and stay away from all of them, they are not the type of people you need in your life or around your precious baby girl
luvmykids replied: Guess it all runs in the family, huh? Sounds like the kids didn't have a fair shot at being "normal" b/c their mom just doesn't seem to care what they do. I'm glad you didn't write the letter, they sound like the kind of people that if you just give them enough rope they'll hang themselves with it
Calimama replied:
A&A'smommy replied: yikes I wonder where her kids get their habbits from!!!! I wouldn't support her either.. too bad you can't get her "caught" she is in for some serious trouble!!
MyBabeMaddie replied: Seriously this girl is non-stop - She just texted me again saying what I thought she was going to say yesterday when she asked to borrow my hair straightener.... I just got a new text message saying "Sarah, please get me a pregnancy test, I'm a week late"
Just leave me alone seriously, I just want her to leave me alone and not to be around my daughter cause she stinks at being a role model. **we need a smiley face of someone pulling their hair out**
gr33n3y3z replied:
lol
I would just change my cell number 
BAC'sMom replied:
MoonMama replied: Oh honey I am so sorry. Please feel free to PM if you ever need to talk.
Cece00 replied:
You def. should NOT trust her around your baby. I dont blame you.
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