Is Tom a good guy for Mason & I???

mamasbigbaby wrote: I really think he's the one. Flowers, Perfume,a CD of my fave band, and a KISS, Tom's the one. What do you all think?

moped replied: I say maybe........wait and see how things go!!!!!

moped replied: Wait..................I thought he was there...why are you on here and not having a date?

mamasbigbaby replied: He's said he doesn't mind if i'm on for a few munites...he's singing to Mason!

ZandersMama replied: wait and see, dont jump head first until you know for sure!

mamasbigbaby replied: I agree, I made this poll based on in a few weeks.

CantWait replied: After 2 dates??? I'd say it's way early to be thinking about whether he's the right guy. IMHO I would not even have introduced baby to him, however since he's so young at least he won't remember.

mummy2girls replied: coming from a single mom that has rushed into a couple relationships way to fast and thinking he is the one after the first date i would say take it slow. Expecially because you have a baby that will be involved in his life. just enjoy your time with him and the dates you have and if it develpos then i would say yeah he is the one. But it is too early. I have realized that jenna will be affected big time with guys in my life so i have to take it slow for not only me but her too!! Good luck though as i know how esciting it can be to meet someone special:)

MomToJade&Jordan replied: I agree with Shelly. Being someone who is going through a divorce I know that I am going to take my time the next go around. I am going to have to completely trust this person before he even thinks about meeting my girls. This person is going to be a big factor in their lives and I want to make sure he's the right person. There can be love after divorce, but at this very moment my children are my first priority.

ashtonsmama replied:


I'm glad he's a nice guy, but I'd have to get to know him to really give you my opinion!

But don't rush it sweetie! Take your time, and let yourself heal from this first whirlwind relationship before jumping into another! JMO.

mamasbigbaby replied: Yes. Again, I made the poll based onin a few weeks. (I have known him for 4 years)

mummy2girls replied:
yes but what im saying is dont rush it. even if you have known the guy for so long. Getting into anyrelationship can be tough. You just have to take it slow and let things happen and just enjoy... because if your son is already in the picture where he has spent time with him he will be affected as well. Good luck in this as i know how exciing it can be":)

mamasbigbaby replied: Okay, thaks for the advice.

gr33n3y3z replied: Who is Tom
Am I missing something here??

mamasbigbaby replied: http://forums.parentingclub.com/index.php?showtopic=46467

Read here. It's the thread.

Mommy2Isabella replied: Coming from someone who is married to someone who is divorced.

I would have to say, it is way to early to ask be asking yourself that type of question. I know it feels GREAT to be loved and treated nicely by someone, but from personal experience with a previous engagement before Sal, you should take things slow and make sure, find out all the details. I know you said you have known him for awhile but there is a lot more "baggage" so to speak now with your son being involved, whoever you are with will affect him as well !

I wish you the best time on your date, kup!!

gr33n3y3z replied: I remember it now
I only had 2 hours of sleep that am and I was beat sorry

Dont rush anything see how the cards fold

mysweetpeasWil&Wes replied: I was going to say don't rush it, but it sounds like you've known the guy for some time. Have you stayed in contact though for those four years? Why I'm asking is because I knew my DH for a long time before we started dating. And I ALWAYS knew I loved him, although we weren't together and we were both dating other people. So once we did get together, it was a sure thing. For both of us, because he admitted that he felt the same way...we were both too scared to admit it. We knew right away, after only a few months that we would get married. BUT I must say, there wasn't a divorce or baby involved. So just be careful.

I'm happy for you! He does sound like a nice guy!

mamasbigbaby replied: Yes, he was my closest friend( ) the entire time. He asked me on the date and love formed. I feel for him, I do love him, he is honest, teustworthy, clean, manly and perfect. I just hope he feels the same of me. I guess from, here all we do is wait and see.

Halo42101 replied:
That is so sweet of him. He sounds like a really nice guy so far but just see where it goes and take it from there. I can't say I blame you for thinking he's the one so soon though because after chatting to Theron online for a week... I knew he was the one (I just felt it) and we've been happily married for 5 years now.

mamasbigbaby replied: Wow. An online relationsip. That's cool!

Bee_Kay replied: I had to look back over a couple of posts before I would answer to get a bit of background considering you are fairly new.

Anyways, one thing caught my attention....

Does Tom know you are about 2 months pregnant?
If so, how does he feel about that?

mamasbigbaby replied: No ,it was a miscarraige. Let me dig up the thread.....

mamasbigbaby replied: Here's the link.

http://forums.parentingclub.com/index.php?...pic=46265&st=0&