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I'm so mad I'm almost in tears


Boys r us wrote: and I guess maybe it's because I'm PMSing and I'm oreally overreacting about this, but we have a committee here at work called the Employee Action Committee, one person from each team in our department goes to a 2 hour monthly meeting to discuss issues and ways to improve processes both for the employees and for the customers. Well, I was voted into this position by my department and I've been the rep for our team for awhile. Then we got two new people on our team, one of which is my best friend. Anyhow, it just so happens that both of the new people were reps on EAC (emp action committee) for their OLD teams..so this is where the problem started..we didn't need 3 reps for one team. We brought this to our boss's attention and she said, oh don't worry about it right now we'll figure it out, well that was two months ago..and we've all 3 been participating until today..when we got an email saying, there was an EAC meeting today..well of course I got all excited b/c I have a bunch of issues to bring up and also, it's 2 hours away from work..lol..so..we all have a daily schedule that we can pull up each day to see what we have going on each day. I pulled mine up after I got that email and there was no meeting on my schedule for EAC. So I said to my friend Jenn, Hey the eAC meeting isn't scheduled for me today and she said, "yeah I know, you're not on it anymore" I was like WTF??? and I said, "well when was that decided?" and she said"..ohh I don't know awhile back."

I said, "well that was great that someone let me know"

But you know what..just the whole way this thing was handled really p*sses me off and 2ndly..I have been BUSTING my butt for the last 2 months in this place and I get NOOOOOOOOOO APPRECEIATION FOR IT..I could be doing a really crappy job and get the same reward for it..NOTHING! What's the freaking use?
Someone else who does half the crap I do gets my position on this committee that is totally "extracurricular" Whatever, I'm so mad! I know I probably sound stupid and childish..but come on..I could have at least been TOLD!

mammag replied: I would be upset too. They should have at least came and talked to you about it first. That is just plain rude.

kimberley replied: (((hugs))) you are not overreacting or being childish. what they did is completely rude and i hope you call them on it. at the very least, you should have been privvy to this info when it was decided instead of letting you find out this way and feel foolish. it also must be hard to come from someone you see as a friend... she coulda told you too sad.gif. vent away honey, i would be fit to be tied too. we are here for you.. we appreciate you! grouphug.gif grouphug.gif

coasterqueen replied: I'd be mad too! How rude! mad.gif I'm starting to feel like in just about any job you can bust your bum and it won't matter, people just don't care and forget what it was like to be a worker bee. dry.gif

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Kaitlin'smom replied: mad.gif thats SOOOO rude I woudl have been mad also they should have told you. Why is it that so many places dont appriciate good employess, but complain about bad or lack of good ones. Just makes me mad. I almost quite my current job a few years back cause I did not fell like I was getting comensated well enough....and might consider it again if I dont get a decent raise this year......sorry I took over a bit

I just hate when companys do that...have you talked to you boss yet?

amymom replied: That really stinks. The hardest part is when communicaton breaks down. Stinks!!!

mckayleesmom replied: Id be mad too. mad.gif

My2Beauties replied: Nichole that is really rude of them. Someone should have at least told you, I would be pissed off too. I'm sorry, I would say something to your boss if I were you.

amynicole21 replied: Someone definitely should have said something to you first thing! That is really unprofessional. I'm sorry... I'd be pissed, too. sad.gif

MissyKay2005 replied: I would have been upset too hun! Sorry this happened sad.gif Hope it all works out for you in the end. They re4ally should have told you about it beofre all the work you put in.

Sunflower04 replied: That would upset me too. I would go talk to someone about it. It isn't fair about how it was handled. And if you were elected it isn't fair for the ones who put you there.

TANNER'S MOM replied: Oh I dont blame you. It really hurts to think you give more time to a job then your family and then they dont care. I understand.

I am sorry that you got your feelings hurt. Get sick at lunch girl and have pina colada on me! grouphug.gif grouphug.gif grouphug.gif grouphug.gif banghead.gif banghead.gif banghead.gif banghead.gif

Boys r us replied: okay..I just got some clarification! Apparently there was a big misunderstanding between my friend who initially told me this and one of our other bosses who never knows anything about anything! Our big boss told my friend Jen that I was definitely still supposed to be going to the meetings..I feel much better now!
thumb.gif I still hate my job though rolleyes.gif

ammommy replied: Glad that was cleared up. I was fuming right there with you. Have fun at the meeting.

Kaitlin'smom replied: wink.gif guess you have to find out from the big bosses mouth before anything can be true...weird and glad it got cleared up, samck your 'friend'

Insanemomof3 replied: I would be mad too. They should have at least told you. grouphug.gif

punkeemunkee'smom replied: tongue.gif Glad it worked out for you! Can't stand when people open their mouths about stuff they really don't know about! mad.gif

A&A'smommy replied: OMG well I'm glad it got worked out!! Sorry you had to get upset and ask the "big boss" to find anything out!!

b&bsmom replied: I'd have been mad too. Glad it all worked out. I know how you feel though it seems the ones that work hard are the ones that get nothing and the ones that do nothing get everything. It sucks. Glad all is well. dry.gif

MommyToAshley replied: Glad to hear it was all a misunderstanding. I can understand your frustration.

Josie83 replied: That is so rude!! I'm really sorry Nichole grouphug.gif I hope you feel happier soon grouphug.gif xx

gr33n3y3z replied: I'm glad Nichole that your still on it thumb.gif

MM'sMama replied: Honey I am so glad everything worked out and you talked to your boss. Good thing I read that before posting I was so TICKED OFF when I read that I almost just posted. grouphug.gif Glad things worked out you deserve to be a part of that team!! thumb.gif


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