I'm just in the blech mood... with all the - losses lately....i'm remembering mine...
Hillbilly Housewife wrote: If I'd had my twins - they'd be 6 1/2 right now. If I'd had the baby I miscarried at 14 weeks... it would be about 2 1/2 now I guess... but I wouldn't have gotten pg with Emilie.
It's hard....I think about it more this time of year - because I lost the twins in December. It was my choice - but it still hurts, almost everyday. November through February are the toughest months for me....I guess it's a little worse now that I have a bit of the baby blues.....
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A&A'smommy replied: I'm sorry sweetie
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mummy2girls replied: I am so sorry hun! I know this year is the worst. its hard not to go throught the what if's. Just know that they are watchig over you and thier siblings! (((HUGS)))
CAMSMOM1 replied:
I'm not understand why it was your choice?
Nevertheless, I know that this time of year is difficult for a lot of people. That's when we remember those we lost and are no longer with us. But what helps me is to remember them and celebrate their life. Maybe put a special ornament on your Christmas tree, or light a candle at night for each of your children. I think it's healing to remember them and to celebrate who they are, and who they were. And not to push it aside, but to embrase it. And embrase what God has given you, your beatufiful Emelie!
I know my words can't help as much...but I do want to encourage you and I thank you for sharing your story with me.
Ann
3_call_me_mama replied: HUGS Rocky. Hoping that you get through the holidays without too much grief. Remembering your losses is very difficult. HUGS
PrairieMom replied:
Hillbilly Housewife replied: It was my choice because I had an abortion.
Not that I need to justify my choice - but it was 6 1/2 years ago, I was 17, and not living a very healthy lifestyle at all, with an abusive ex-boyfriend.... it would not have been fair to bring in a child to the world, especially not two.
Feel free to search for my loss story... it's one of the first few posted in this forum I believe...
Hillbilly Housewife replied: Thanks everybody... it's nice to know I can share without being ashamed.
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Insanemomof3 replied: No reason to be ashamed! Things happen. It's life. You are a strong and wonderful person and a great mommy. Past is just that....PAST.
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