I was just thinking - and I thought I would update ya'll

A&A'smommy wrote: Okay most of ya'll know my lovely MIL kicked us out her house and took "her" car away from us. So now we have a beautiful new truck (actually its an suv) and were living with my parents. SO far living with my parents hasn't been too bad they have been pretty relaxed and been really good to us, respected our space and have REALLY enjoyed the THREE of us!

I'm still really hating my MIL these days but I'm trying to move on she shouldn't be so much of a stress for us (mostly me). Most of our stuff has been boxed up by her of course as she is ready for us to be out of HER house.

Thanksgiving over there was horrible I about lost my cool completly when I saw all my stuff boxed up but I'm trying not to let that bother me. I'm still not going to let her keep Alyssa ever and after Christmas it will be a LONG LONG time before she sees her again, imo if she wants me and Jeremiah out of her life she is pushing her grandchild that way too!

At thanksgiving my SIL from missouri was here and my BIL from Georgia was back in town too. I wanted to STRANGLE my SIL because she kept shooting REALLY mean looks our way lets just say if I had to stay over there too long she wouldn't have any eyes left! And now my other SIL is being that way too at church sunday she wouldn't even talk to us and then last night she came over and got Alyssa and she shot me the look of "i'm sorry" which is fine I know how she is and I'm just not going to even go there! I think I'm taking 90% of this more personal than Jeremiah all he is worried about it getting our stuff out of there before she screws anything up.

The day after thanksgiving Jeremiah and I went over there to get a few things (she wasn't there) and dh was getting a few of our things that she "forgot" to pack out of her cabinet well the dang thing fell on his head and about knocked him out so I went back over there with him to help him clean it up and my fil showed up and told us that it is okay and that he was going to tell her he did it (they hung it back up) because he was not "scared" of her. I just died out laughing he is tired of this crap (her crap) too, in fact he is in florida right now working. Anyway I went NUTS I went through ALL her stuff making sure she didn't "inherit" a few of our things I found a couple of Alyssa's blankets and I'm not really sure where a few of our other things are.

I'm really looking forward to after christmas and finding an apartment I want my stuff back SO bad! I hate the thought of it sitting over there with her THERE. I know I probably sounds REALLY harsh and bitter but this is whole thing has been harsh and bitter so how can I not be Anyway I just wanted to share my very idiotic, childish situation. Thanks for being so supported and I'm sorry this got so long!

Kaitlin'smom replied: are you not able to bring t to your parents house and store it someplace, or what about a storage facility? I know its got to be terrible, and it sound slike you need to get out as soon as possible, there is got to be someplace you can store it.

I am sorry your having to deal with this (((BIG HUGS)))

Mommy2Be replied: Oh sweetie I am so sorry. That would make me mad too and I don't blame you for feeling the way you do. I hope things get better soon keep your head up some people are just that way. hugs

My2Beauties replied: Sorry you have to deal with an awful MIL and this situation ended on a sour note! Hopefully in the future she can realize that she is driving her loved ones away and she'll come around, until then be the bigger person and just ignore any childish or rude remarks she makes, if she doesn't ever get it, then that is her loss!

favre4fan replied: That sucks!! I would put my stuff in a storage place before I kept it over there!! ZGosh dosen't she realize that she is completely insane for treating u guys this way!!

kimberley replied: (((hugs))) sweetie. i don't think you are the childish one here in all of this... that position is saved just for your MIL . i am sorry you are still dealing with her crap. i hope she doesn't ruin the holidays for you and that you guys get your own place soon.

Maddie&EthansMom replied: Yep, this is her loss. She is very ignorant for pushing you this far....and excuse me, but why the #$@& is it your SIL's business??? Your MIL is the one who treated YOU badly and kicked YOU and YOUR CHILD out of HER house!!! That makes no sense. Phooey on all of them!!

A&A'smommy replied:
That is what the plan is.. but I think my parents are going to pay for it because they need to put some stuff in storage too I hope they will because were not going to have much money for christmas

DansMom replied: That all sounds incredibly stressful! Hang in there. Once you're in your own place life will get back to normal

Josie83 replied: I was just about to put a message up because I noticed you haven't been around much. What a pain in the backside situation - if you ask me tho you are way better off out of there, it sounds as though life with your mum and dad is a lot better! I feel really awful for Jeremiah because its his family that are shunning you, if you know what I mean? It must be hard for him. anyway, i'm glad that it seems as tho things are getting a bit more sorted, and don't you dare apologise for sounding harsh and bitter . . . you don't at all! Gosh everyone uses this board to vent sometimes - go for it! xx

MommyToAshley replied: I am sorry you have to deal with such a nutty MIL. Hang in there, you will be in your own place in no time!

momof2girls replied: Im sorry that your going thru this stuff!@
I hope its all better soon!