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I don't know what's wrong with me?

CAMSMOM1 wrote: Thank you all for the support. grouphug.gif

I'm not doing so good today. I'm just depressed. I don't know why I'm taking this so hard.

Last night when I started my AF, it felt like a miscarriage. I know...this sounds crazy! But I had already invisioned this baby, and being a Mommy again. I'm crying just typing this. bawling.gif Please tell me it's just my hormones from my AF?

I don't know how I went from being scared to death a few weeks ago, to wanting to be pregnant. My emotions are all over the place.

DH is trying to be supportive, but you know how men are. They always want to "fix" everything. He tells me all the reasons why it's not the perfect timing. How I need to have surgery to get my hernia removed before I get pg. That I need to lose weight and stop smoking. And that I won't be able to go back to college if I get pg. I know everything he is saying is true, but it doesn't make it any easier. Last night he was very supportive. He just held me as I cried. But today, he was in the "I'll fix it" mode, and I didn't want to hear it.

I've been so snappy at everybody. I'm usually so happy and cheerful. I hope this goes away soon. It seems like everyone and everything is getting to me, and I'm over-sensitive.

I know that I will have another child in the future. I guess I just built all of this up in my head so much, that I feel like I lost something last night.
I hope this is just my AF talking, and all the hormones. I just feel like I'm losing it this week. Why am I getting so upset over this? I feel so stupid even writing this. Have you ever felt this way? I feel like climbing into a hole, and hybernating for awhile.

But you guys have comforted me a lot. I'm sorry for making such a big thing over this....that turned up to be nothing.

mommycat2244 replied: Aww...hun, I'm so sorry that you're feeling this way, and going through all of those icky feelings. Maybe I don't know exactly what is that you are going through right now, but if you ever need to talk I think I speak for me and everyone here when I say that we're here for ya!!!! You've been super-duper supportive and sweet to me so here's a hug.gif and well wishes that you feel better soon!!!!

luvmykids replied: I get myself all worked up over all kinds of things, big or small, it's amazing what we can let emotions do to us, not to mention hormones which we have no control over. I've been snappy and grouchy and tearful for the last few days and then making it worse going "What is wrong with me?" Sho nuff, AF showed up. I know you're so disappointed but I know you'll feel better when AF leaves again. Keep your chin up! hug.gif hug.gif hug.gif hug.gif

MamaJAM replied: hug.gif

Sarah&Mackenzie replied: I just want to give you some hug.gif hug.gif You don't need to feel "stupid" for typing your feelings, we are all here for you!!!!

punkeemunkee'smom replied: I did that a million times before Tay! I think you just build it up so much in your mind that it is hard to realize our bodies trick us sometimes! hug.gif Hope you feel better soon.

coasterqueen replied: hug.gif I wish you the best to get through this.

Just remember you never stop being a mommy wink.gif. You have a beautiful son and he can be your strength while you get through this and decide what you want for your future.

I know DH's aren't good at comforting, but maybe your DH is right. dunno.gif Anyways, that's how they comfort, so just take comfort in knowing that he cares enough to respond somehow, even if it's not like you want it.


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holley79 replied: Oh sweetie I'm sorry you are still feeling down. grouphug.gif I hope that it passes for you soon. Just think that you will just get to try again and probably when you least expect it, it will happen. hug.gif

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MyLuvBugs replied: Oh sweetie.... hug.gif hug.gif hug.gif Sometimes you just have to cry it out. I know what it's like to have the hormones so crazy that you don't want to do anything but cry. However, you have to think of all the positive stuff in your life. You have an adorable little boy, a loving husband, and a caring family. Don't ever feel stupid for freaking out if your PG or not. Thinking that you'r PG is a highly emotional time for any woman, and we've all gotten a little freaked out about it. I'm just sorry that you didn't get your wish. hug.gif hug.gif hug.gif We're all here for you though. hug.gif

MyBrownEyedBoy replied: Ann, most men are just bad at comforting. Aaron is. Unfortunately, so is my mother so when I just need hugs or a friend to listen, I come on here. You should never feel guilty for your feelings. The female body is a treacherous wench. Sorry you feel crummy. Go hug Cameron. hug.gif hug.gif

CAMSMOM1 replied: Yeah, I just think my hormones are messing with me bad. I usually get emotional during my AF, and then with everything else on top of it, it was a lot to handle.

I'm feeling better this morning. Crying it out last night, was good. I think my DH is right, there are a lot of things we need to do first before we are ready for a 2nd baby. And I know it'll happen, I just have to be patient and wait for the Lord's timing.

I am so blessed to have such a great son. I don't want to minimize that. And it'll be good to just spend some more alone time with him before I have another one.
DH has been supportive. But like you said, Kelly, they don't know what you need sometimes. That's why it's so nice to have you guys to talk to .

Don't worry about me. I was just having a pity party for myself last night, and I'm doing a lot better this moring. And I'm sure once AF leaves, I'll be back to my old self again. sunflower.gif


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CosmetologyMommy replied: I am sooo sorry Ann! hug.gif You know that god will give you a baby when he feels it is time. wub.gif

kayla's mama replied: Ann, glad your feeling better today. I missed this post last night blush.gif Never feel "stupid" for letting your feeling out here hug.gif

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