He left

MyBabeMaddie wrote: Adam left tonight (well 530am). I went to bed at 1am and he was up watching a movie I heard him come to bed at 2 cause he woke me up when he climbed into bed. Next thing I know its 5am and Adam has a flashlight looking in his sock drawer while scratching the crap out of himself. I let him know I was awake and asked him to let me see his pupils, he refused pushed me when I tried to grab his arm, I saw his eyes for a second - they were pinned - But I don't know if it was cause I had just turned the light on, but why would he have been scratching the hell outta his back. Sorry for the rambling I'm just kind of in some weird zoned out state. (If this doesn't make sense I"m sorry i'm accusing him of being on opiates if that clears some things up)

my2monkeyboys replied: I am so sorry to hear about this. I'm sure it's a very tough time for you, and I'll be sending prayers and thoughts your way.
Is there anyone who may can help you get him help?

sparkys2boys replied: It really sounds like he needs to get some help before this all gets out of control. If you are suspecting him of drugs then sorry to say but he is more then likely doing them. Can you try talking to him about getting some help with it? Or is he in denial of a problem? I am so sorry that you are having to go through this, stay strong and just try to focous on help for him. Sending you prayers.

MyBabeMaddie replied: He came back and admitted to doing vicodon last night and I told him to get out and that I hate him, and he told me hes been eating pills regularly for a year now.

Momof3inMe replied: I am very sorry to hear that you have to go through all of this. Leah's mom ate those pills the whole time she was pregnant and still does today and this is why we have we her. I hope he can find the help he needs.

kristy-n-chad replied: You and that pretty little girl deserve so much better. Unless he can get his act together, he isn't worthy of being around you.

ZandersMama replied: I'm so sorry, i've been there and am there, not with pills, but other drugs. As much as they say they will change, I will never believe it again. I'm so sorry, but you desearve much better.

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BAC'sMom replied: I'm so sorry to hear that

3xsthefun replied: I'm so sorry.

Kirstenmumof3 replied: I'm so sorry you are going through this! My dad is like this, he would go through a bottle of advil in less than a day. When I had jaw surgery, I was given liguid codeine for the pain and he drank that too. They don't know who they are hurting and they don't know how to stop or ask for help. This is not an environment you want your child growing up in, so I think you did the right thing by asking him to leave. I hope that he will be able to get some help!

redchief replied: I'm truly sorry you're having to deal with addiction. While it's obvious to me that you don't hate him, it's also clear you despise what he's allowed to happen to himself and your family. You're right, you can't have an addict living under your roof. In my opinion the only home he can be in right now is an inpatient drug program. I'm so sorry.

Celestrina replied: Remind him that being on drugs will only hurt your daughter and you will not put up with it. Tell him that if he doesn't seek help you will kick him to the curb.

sparkys2boys replied:
Oh sweetie, I am so sorry you did the right thing by asking him to leave. It's not the right enviroment for you and the little girl to be in right now or ever. I know that right at this moment you hate him for his choices but don't make to many decision until you both have the chance to settle down and get calm and he is capable of conversation which he is not if he's high. When he can talk to you, really encourage him to go for help and if he won't I think that you need to let him go be on his own until he makes a decision to stop ruining his life. Is there anyone near you that you can talk to? Prayers are going you way

mom2my2cuties replied:
As usual Ed is right on


I am very sorry that you and Maddie are having to go through this.

MyBrownEyedBoy replied: For what it's worth, you did the right thing by keeping your eyes open and letting him know that wasn't acceptable. The rest is up to him. It takes a tremendous amount of courage to do what you did last night/this morning. Good for you. Keep your chin up. I'll keep you and Maddie in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs.

A&A'smommy replied: I'm sorry honey, its terrible that he is putting you guys through this I hope he will straigten up for his babys sake!!!

JadensMama05 replied: First of all.. Be strong thru all of this.

2nd, that kinda thing just angers me. Here's my DH in some major pain and without anything to help (our insurance STILL hasn't gone thru ) and other people out there are just eating up all the pain killers that some people really need. Sorry.. I had to vent.

I hope you can get him to see the light. He needs to get help, bad! You guys don't need to be dealing with such BS. Good luck with him.