GOSH DARNIT BRAD! - LAZY BUM!
luvbug00 wrote: i lothe detest and abominate mya's dad  . He is the lazyest, stuipedest and irresponcible *&^*^ in the entire world! I'm drowning in medical bills for mya and it's getting to be too much  . Over $400 from her dentist and $700 from the allergist. They were higher but i have been keeping them at bay with minimal payments. They are KILLING my finances. How much has he payed for the illnesses she inherited from his bloodline..? NOTHING not a darn dime! he thinks his $300 a month child support is helping and guess what? that covers RENT. not even food and water and heat, JUST RENT. And what does this pompus idiot go do??? have another baby, buy a new couch and TV .. oh yeah and pays rent on a 1,600.00 townhouse that he LIED on his credit score to get into.! He drived a car with a DVD player and gives mya the toys i can't afford to.  . Lars is paying for alot over here but i'm not comfotable with him covering my medical bills even though he has offered to. I HATE THIS and I HATE BRAD!
MoonMama replied: Oh Nadia honey!  I am so sorry you have to deal with all of this and then that &^% on top of it! 
Calimama replied: He sounds like a jerk!! I'm sorry hun, you and Mya both deserve so much more from him!
lisar replied:
sparkys2boys replied: Sorry that he is such a jerk about it all. what does he say if you ask him to help more?
mckayleesmom replied: I would make a copy of the bill....Type out another piece of paper that says Brads half....devide it of course and give him a copy of the origional bill and what he needs to start sending them.
luvbug00 replied:
he claims he will give me his tax rebate. but by then the new baby will be closer to here and his GF will want him to save the money. He was late on his last payment and it keeps getting less consistant. he informed me today they are buying a house...how? i don't know they have NO money to do it with that i know of..
grandma replied:
Even people with terrible credit can buy a house on land contract. It usually defaults back to the seller and they make out on the deal.
Kaitlin'smom replied: do you have an legal papers saying he is responsible for some medical care?
HuskerMom replied:
luvbug00 replied: we have a written agreement that he pays insurance ( which is crap) and half her medical bills but i can't use it. My legal adviser is drawing up paperwork but we can't let that paper be filled in the system or i'm doomed. Right now it's negoshable but if it gets filed i could not have as much time with mya. So i have to "keep him happy".
keeping him happy= breaking my bank
mummy2girls replied: Oh nadia I am so sorry! Ive been lucky with aron.. with anything that goes towards jennas meds for asthma that isnt covered by the alberta healtcare he pays half. It took him until jenna was 8 months old to help out financially with anything. I would take that to court if your going and get it dealt with!!!!
mummy2girls replied:
why because he makes more money so he would get custody?
luvbug00 replied:
No , but tied into that agreement is the times of visitation. i get mya for 22 hours a week. ( school & sleep time not counted) brad gets mya for 100 hours on a long weekend and 23 or so on a short one ( also not including sleep time). all the time he gets is "funtime" but when i have her we do homework and try to get some fun in. it's not easy ... But with my papers I'm cutting back his time for once every 2 weeks for an overnight and saterday until pm.
Kaitlin'smom replied:
thats all I can say on that agreement
mckayleesmom replied:
Did you guys come up with that agreement on your own? How did you guys come up with that...it seems pretty unfair.
luvbug00 replied: brad came up with it and it was after the first time i gave him papers ( i chickened out because he went violent postal on me)
ZandersMama replied:
A&A'smommy replied: I'm Sorry honey he is SUCH a jerk!!!!
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